Aaj jab main apne bacche ko confidence ke saath bolte dekhti hoon — clearly, calmly, bina ghabrahat ke — toh ek baat mann mein baar-baar aati hai:

“Kaash ye galti main pehle na karti.”

Aur honestly, shayad har parent kahin na kahin ye galti karta hai.
Main bhi wahi kar rahi thi — bina realise kiye.

Ye blog koi perfect-parent gyaan nahi hai.
Ye meri real parent journey hai — galti, guilt, realisation aur phir dheere-dheere improvement ki.

Aur haan, iss process mein PlanetSpark ne kaafi cheezein sudhaar di — sirf mere bacche ke liye nahi, balki mere parenting approach ke liye bhi.

Galti #1: “Marks Acche Hain, Bas Kaafi Hai”

Sach bolun toh, main un parents mein se thi jo sochte the:

“Marks theek hain na? Phir problem kya hai?”

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Mera baccha padhta tha.
Concepts samajhta tha.
Exams mein numbers bhi aa jaate the.

Par jab:

• class mein bolna hota

• presentation deni hoti

• teacher kuch pooch leti

Toh wahi silence.
Wahi hesitation.
Wahi “mujhe aata hai par bol nahi paa raha.”

Main ise introversion bol kar ignore karti rahi.
Yahin meri pehli galti thi.

Galti #2: Bacche Ko Compare Karna (Bina Jaane)

“Uska beta kitna confidently bolta hai.”
“Dekho, wo stage pe kaise bol rahi hai.”

Shayad directly nahi bola,
par comparison feel ho jaata hai.

Aur bacche ko ye lagne lagta hai:

“Shayad main hi weak hoon.”

PlanetSpark ke ek teacher ne demo ke time ek line boli thi:

“Every child thinks differently. Expression seekhna padta hai, aata nahi.”

Us din mujhe realise hua —
confidence talent nahi, skill hai.

Aur skills sikhayi jaati hain.

Galti #3: Bacche Ki Jagah Main Bol Deti Thi

PTM ho, relatives ho, ya koi question —
main jaldi se bol deti thi.

Socha:

“Isse bachche ko awkward feel nahi hoga.”

Par sach ye tha:
main usse bolne ka mauka hi nahi de rahi thi.

PlanetSpark classes shuru hone ke baad ye aadat dheere-dheere badli.
Teacher patiently wait karti thi.
Interrupt nahi karti thi.
Sentence complete hone deti thi.

Aur mujhe laga —
“Acha, bolne ke liye space dena bhi parenting ka hissa hai.”

PlanetSpark Ka Entry Point: Ek Simple Demo Class

Honestly, PlanetSpark ka demo lene se pehle bhi doubt tha.

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Online class?
Speaking kaise sikhaenge?
Scripted hoga kya?

Par demo mein:

• teacher ne lecture nahi diya

• bacche se baat ki

• galtiyon pe daanta nahi

• bolne ka pressure nahi dala

Aur sabse important —
mera baccha class ke baad bola:

“Mujhe next class bhi karni hai.”

Bas.
Wahi turning point tha.

Dheere-Dheere Jo Sudhaar Aaya (Real Changes)

Ye koi overnight miracle nahi tha.
Par 6–8 weeks mein noticeable changes aaye:

✔ sentences thode lamba hone lage
✔ eye contact better hua
✔ “I don’t know” kam hua
✔ ideas ko structure milna shuru hua

School ke project explain karte waqt pehli baar laga:

“Ye mera hi baccha hai na?”

Aur main samajh gayi —
problem intelligence ki kabhi thi hi nahi.
Problem expression ki thi.

PlanetSpark Ne Sirf Bacche Ko Nahi, Mujhe Bhi Sikhaya

Ye baat kam log bolte hain, par sach hai.

PlanetSpark ne mujhe bhi sikhaya:

• bacche ko time dena

• har sentence correct na karna

• fluency pe focus karna, perfection pe nahi

• confidence ko nurture karna

Maine apni parenting approach change ki:
❌ “Galat hai”
✅ “Try karo, better ho jayega”

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Aur ye shift powerful tha.

Kya PlanetSpark Mehenga Hai? Honest Answer

Haan.
Cheap nahi hai.

Par main ab ise “fees” nahi bolti.
Main ise investment bolti hoon.

Kyuki:

• confidence lifelong skill hai

• communication har field mein kaam aati hai

• bolna seekhne ka koi exam syllabus nahi hota

Aur ye cheez tuition mein nahi milti.

Har Parent Ke Liye PlanetSpark Hai Kya?

Honest answer: Nahi.

Agar:

• aap sirf marks pe focus karte ho

• classes irregular hongi

• bacche ko support nahi milega

Toh results bhi weak honge.

Par agar:

• aap consistency rakh sakte ho

• bacche ko bolne ka space doge

• long-term skill chahte ho

Toh PlanetSpark genuinely help karta hai.

Sabse Badi Realisation (Jo Main Pehle Samajh Nahi Paayi)

Confidence bachpan mein ban jaata hai.
Ya phir zindagi bhar struggle karwata hai.

Main khush hoon ki meri galti time pe sudhar gayi.
Aur PlanetSpark is process ka ek strong part bana.

Aaj bhi improvement chal rahi hai.
Par direction sahi hai.

Final Words: Agar Aap Bhi Ye Galti Kar Rahe Ho…

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Toh khud ko blame mat karo.
Almost har parent ye karta hai.

Bas ek step lo:

• demo dekho

• bacche ko observe karo

• comparison band karo

Shayad aap bhi ek din ye kahoge:

“Haan, ye galti main pehle kar chuki thi… par ab sudhar gayi.”