Main ye line likhte hue bhi thoda ruk jaati hoon.
Kyuki ye sirf ek sentence nahi hai—ye ek realization hai, jo mujhe thoda late hua.

Mujhe yaad hai, ek din school se koi complaint nahi aayi thi. Teacher ne bas itna casually bola,
“Academically strong hai… par class mein zyada bolta nahi.”

Unhone normal tone mein kaha, par mere dil mein kuch sa hil gaya.

Kyuki ghar pe toh mera baccha bilkul aisa nahi hai. Ghar pe questions khatam hi nahi hote. Stories, opinions, arguments—sab kuch. Phir school mein jaake wahi baccha itna chup kyun ho jaata hai?

Ghar Pe Sab Aata Hai, School Mein Awaz Nahi Nikalti

Mainne bahut baar dekha hai—
Homework aata hai.
Concepts clear hote hain.
Test mein marks bhi theek aa jaate hain.

Par jab class mein teacher question poochti hain, haath nahi uthta.
Jab kuch kehna hota hai, baccha peeche reh jaata hai.

Pehle main bhi wahi sochti thi jo shayad har maa sochti hai:
“Introvert hoga.”
“Time ke saath confident ho jaayega.”
“Marks toh aa hi rahe hain.”

Par dheere-dheere mujhe samajh aaya—
Samajhna aur bol paana, dono alag baatein hain.

Aur hum parents aksar bolne wali baat ko ignore kar dete hain.

Sirf Padhna Kaafi Kyun Nahi Hai

Maa hone ke naate, main chahti hoon mera baccha sirf achha student nahi, confident insaan bane.
Aaj ke time mein sirf smart hona kaafi nahi hai.

Aaj duniya un logon ko notice karti hai jo:

• Apni baat clearly keh paate hain

• Apne thoughts express kar paate hain

• Bina dare bol paate hain

Agar mera baccha sab jaanta hai, par bol nahi paata—
toh duniya ko kaise pata chalega ki woh capable hai?

Ye soch thodi heavy thi, par sach thi.

Public Speaking Sirf Stage Tak Limited Nahi Hai

Main bhi pehle sochti thi public speaking matlab stage, mic, competition.
Par asal mein public speaking toh roz hoti hai.

Class mein answer dena.
Teacher se doubt poochna.
Friends ke beech apni baat rakhna.
Assembly mein confidently khade rehna.

Ye sab chhoti-chhoti cheezein hain, par bacche ke confidence ko bahut affect karti hain.

Jab Baccha Bolna Chahta Hai, Par Darr Rok Leta Hai

Mujhe lagta hai bacche bolna isliye nahi chhodte kyunki unhe nahi aata—
woh isliye nahi bolte kyunki darr lagta hai.

“Galat bol diya toh?”
“Sab hansenge toh?”
“Teacher kya sochegi?”

Ye darr real hai.
Aur honestly, ye darr hum adults ke andar bhi hota hai.

Tab mujhe laga—
Is bacche ko daant ki nahi, support ki zarurat hai.

Bolna Bhi Sikhaana Padta Hai

Hum bacchon ko likhna sikhaate hain.
Padhna sikhaate hain.
Practice karvaate hain.

Par bolna… hum assume kar lete hain ki baccha apne aap seekh lega.

Par har baccha naturally outspoken nahi hota.
Kuch bacchon ko thoda time, thoda patience, aur ek safe space chahiye hota hai.

Yahin se maine consciously communication pe focus karna shuru kiya.

Ek Maa Ke Roop Mein Mera Experience

Main kisi shortcut ya miracle ki talaash mein nahi thi.
Main bas chahti thi ki mera baccha bolte waqt comfortable mehsoos kare.

PlanetSpark ka approach mujhe isliye achha laga kyunki yahan bacchon pe pressure nahi hota.
Yahan bolna ek performance nahi, ek journey hai.

Bacche ko patiently suna jaata hai.
Galtiyon ko accept kiya jaata hai.
Confidence ko dheere-dheere build kiya jaata hai.

Aur maa hone ke naate, ye sab dekhna bahut sukoon deta hai.

Aaj Jab Main Apne Bacche Ko Dekhti Hoon

Mera baccha koi perfect speaker nahi hai.
Par ab woh bolta hai.

Class mein haath uthta hai.
Teacher se baat karta hai.
Apni baat kehne ki koshish karta hai.

Aur ek maa ke liye, isse badi khushi kya ho sakti hai?

Agar aap bhi kabhi chup-chaap sochte ho—
“Mera baccha sab samajhta hai… bas bol nahi paata”

Toh shayad problem bacche mein nahi hai.
Shayad bas usse bolna seekhne ka mauka nahi mila.

Aur jab bacche bolna seekh jaate hain,
toh woh sirf confident nahi bante—
woh zindagi ke liye strong bante hain 🤍