Talkative ≠ Trained: Why My 9-Year-Old Still Needed Public Speaking Coaching
If you’ve ever met my 9-year-old, you know one thing instantly—he talks. A lot.
He talks while brushing his teeth.
He talks during dinner.
He talks to the dog, the mirror, and sometimes even to Alexa.
So when someone suggested public speaking coaching for him, I laughed.
“He doesn’t need help speaking,” I said. “He needs help stopping.”
Turns out, I was wrong.
🧠 The Realization: Talking Isn’t the Same as Communicating
It hit me during a school event. He was asked to introduce a skit. Just a few lines. Easy, right?
But on stage, he froze.
No eye contact. No structure. Just a rushed mumble and a quick exit.
I was confused. This was the same kid who narrated entire cricket matches at home with commentary.
That’s when I realized:
Being talkative doesn’t mean being trained.
Speaking casually isn’t the same as speaking with clarity, confidence, and purpose.
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🔍 The Search: Finding the Right Fit
I didn’t want a rigid speech class. I wanted something that would guide him without dimming his spark.
After a few trials and errors, we landed on PlanetSpark.
What stood out?
They didn’t treat him like a “loud kid.” They treated him like a learner—with potential, personality, and a lot of energy.
🧩 The Breakdown: What He Actually Learned
Here’s what surprised me most—he didn’t just learn how to speak. He learned how to think before speaking.
🗂️ Structure
He learned how to organize his thoughts.
Beginning, middle, end.
Hook, message, conclusion.
🎭 Expression
He practiced using gestures, voice modulation, and pauses.
Not just shouting louder—but speaking smarter.
🧘 Confidence
He learned how to handle stage fear.
Breathing techniques, eye contact, and even how to recover if he forgot a line.
✍️ Writing
He started writing his own speeches.
Topics like “Why Homework Should Be Shorter” and “My Dream Invention.”
👩🏫 Teacher’s Take: From Volume to Value
His mentor, Anjali ma’am, shared this after his first month:
“He’s naturally expressive, but now he’s learning to channel that energy. His storytelling is improving, and he’s beginning to understand pacing and audience connection.”
Another update said:
“He led a peer activity today and gave feedback to others. He’s learning to listen, not just speak.”
That last line stuck with me.
Because communication isn’t just about talking—it’s about connecting.
🎉 The Turning Point: A Speech on Kindness
Week 6 was the game-changer.
He was asked to prepare a 2-minute speech on kindness.
He wrote it himself. Practiced in front of the mirror. Asked me to record him.
And when he delivered it in class, his mentor said:
“That was heartfelt and well-paced. He used examples, humor, and a strong closing line. He’s ready for a bigger audience.”
He was glowing.
Not because he spoke well—but because he felt heard.
🏫 What Schools Miss
Schools teach grammar, vocabulary, and reading.
But public speaking? It’s often limited to one annual competition or a rushed assembly speech.
PlanetSpark filled that gap.
They gave him:
- Weekly speaking challenges
- Real-time feedback
- A safe space to try, fail, and grow
- Exposure to formats like debates, storytelling, and extempore
💬 What My Son Says Now
I asked him, “Do you like the classes?”
He said, “It’s fun. I get to talk, but I also learn how to make people listen.”
That’s the magic.
He’s not just speaking—he’s communicating.
🔄 The Shift at Home
- He explains his ideas better
- He listens more (still working on that 😅)
- He helps his younger sister with her school presentations
- He even gave a mini speech at his cousin’s birthday party
And yes, he still talks a lot.
But now, it’s with purpose.
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🧠 Why Talkative Kids Still Need Coaching
Here’s what I’ve learned:
- Being vocal doesn’t mean being clear
- Being expressive doesn’t mean being effective
- Being confident at home doesn’t mean being confident on stage
Public speaking coaching isn’t about changing your child.
It’s about refining their natural voice.
🧭 Parent Who Thought “He Talks Too Much”
If you’re wondering whether your chatty child needs public speaking coaching, ask yourself:
- Can they explain their thoughts clearly in front of others?
- Do they know how to structure a message?
- Can they handle stage fear or formal settings?
- Do they listen as well as they speak?
If not, PlanetSpark might be the best gift you give them.
Because talkative ≠ trained.
And trained ≠ boring.
It’s about helping them shine—on stage, in class, and in life
No matter what type of learner your child is, PlanetSpark helps set your child up for success by providing online classes with a curriculum that's designed to develop essential skills to make your child future-ready.

No matter what type of learner your child is, PlanetSpark helps set your child up for success by providing online classes with a curriculum that's designed to develop essential skills to make your child future-ready.

No matter what type of learner your child is, PlanetSpark helps set your child up for success by providing online classes with a curriculum that's designed to develop essential skills to make your child future-ready.
