When it comes to a conversation about the ‘birds and the bees,’ who takes the lead? Is it the school’s responsibility, or should parents talk to children about sex? While parents may feel uncomfortable discussing the subject, sex education can help children make informed decisions. It can also help them recognize and avert sexual harassment, assault, or abuse.
Why is Sex Education Important?
India is a traditionally conservative society, but children are now exposed to many sexually explicit material via the internet. Every child has a smartphone. Given the current context, it is even more important to teach children before they are introduced to the subject from the wrong source or fall into an unhealthy peer group or adult company.
What is the Role of the School?
While parents may be hesitant, schools can be crucial in laying the foundation of comprehensive sex education. They should not limit the teaching to safe reproductive practices and sexual transmission of disease. Counselors in schools should also talk to children about menstruation, puberty, consent, and their bodies. Kids should be able to recognize and report abuse and draw boundaries.
When Do Parents Step In?
While parents do understand the responsibility, they may feel that broaching the subject itself will encourage their children to explore more. However, children will probably try to experiment or discover more only if they have not been acquainted with the concepts of sexuality, relationships, and sex. In India, schools have not yet incorporated comprehensive sex education for students, making it all the more important for parents to initiate the conversation.
A Joint Effort
Sex education cannot be the sole responsibility of the school or parents. Neither can it be a one-time conversation. Parents may skip the awkward conversation if it is left to them. Not discussing sex will also make children uncomfortable about seeking any advice in the future. After the school introduces the subject, parents can follow it up in casual conversations. If the school and parents share the responsibility, the conversation can be ongoing, and children can feel free to approach either of them with more questions. Parents are also better positioned to advise children based on cultural and traditional beliefs and their social environment.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Is sex education given in schools?
Sex education is still not part of most schools. Non-profit organizations usually approach schools and talk to students about personal hygiene and subjects like menstruation.
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What grades should sex education be taught?
In the Western countries, sex education is imparted to students in grades 7-12. The same model can be followed in India.
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Why is sex education important?
Sex education can teach children about safe practices and help them make informed decisions. It can also help them recognize and avert sexual harassment, assault, or abuse.
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What is the role of parents in sex education?
Parents should initiate conversations about sex to help prevent abuse, and harassment and help their children make informed choices.
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What is the meaning of consent?
When both partners agree to engage in sexual activity, both have consented to the same. Sex without consent is illegal.
